Boundaries

Boundaries! We have all heard from girlfriends or stated ourselves: I won’t date married men I won’t be a therapist to my date I won’t date men who are separated I won’t sleep with a guy on the first date The list can go on and on. We usually set these boundaries based on past experiences of heartache. I think one major reason women fall into a relationship that doesn’t work is that we allow…

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Almost first date?

Has this ever happened to you? You meet someone. The two of you hit it off pretty good. The guy asks you if you want to meet for a drink, coffee, dinner etc. You agree. You exchange numbers. each of you go about your life. In the above scenario, what do you, the female expect to happen next? It appears that the man should be calling. No deadline was put on when he would call…

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Bad Tools

Practice makes perfect except when it comes to a BAD relationship. An unhealthy relationship cannot get better using the same tools that built it! Do you have the right tools to walk into a healthy relationship? Does the person you are entering into the relationship have complimentary tools or the same ones? While doing the work in Manifest Your Mate, questions like this might arise. In the case above if  both people have the same…

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Healthy Relationships

What does the term “healthy relationship” mean to you? To me it means that each person respects and loves themselves enough to know how to communicate in an effective way with the other. A healthy relationship should last a lifetime. It can stand the trials and tribulations of loss and disaster, of all kinds. It can stand the struggles of disease and illnesses. A healthy relationship carries both participants into the future, instead of to…

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the cover

I found the cover image online almost a year before I started cover design for the book and definitely before the manuscript could even be called one. I love this image, the textures the feeling that she is creating her mate from the Universal dust. I love the fact that they create stronger love as they combine as two, by the heart shaped space above. Immediately upon seeing the image – I knew I had…

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editing – yikes!

Who wants to sit and read through their own book a hundred times? No one. I found that it is a must to know every word, every space and every piece of punctuation before you publish. I think the brain gets use to seeing something it has seen before, so in the review process, it is hard to catch every mistake. I ended up reading my book aloud to myself and placing the punctuation verbally…

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the process

I never knew how much goes into writing a book and getting it in print. Overwhelming at times. It takes great dedication and persistence to see a book project through to the print phase…and then there is the marketing of it, which never ends. I decided to finish my book while I was seeking an agent. because I felt, I would have to finish it it anyway once I got an agent, so why wait.…

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my first book

Wow! What a journey this has been. I now understand why so many set out to write a book and never finish. There is so much more that goes into putting it together and getting it on a shelf or at the stage to purchase. I started gathering information on this topic back in 2005. I was single at the time and just thought it would be fun to practice the Law of Attraction. I…

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