Married Men

I have been approached by so many married men and the excuses they have are amazing. I love this one: “Oh, my wife and I have an understanding.” My response: “Great! Let’s get her on the phone and tell her, better yet, let’s invite her to join us and show her in person.” Of course that ends most approaches immediately. I understand why men and women who are involved with someone or married reach out…

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what is sexy in a man?

Sexy?  Sexy!  Sexy:0  Sexy:) What is sexy to you, is all that matters. No matter what People magazine says is sexy–if it isn’t sexy to you –then it doesn’t apply. So what does “sexy” mean when it comes to your man? Is it his smile, his personality, his honesty, his confidence….what is it? Sexy can encompass so much… Is it that knowing in his eyes as he looks at you? Is it the mystery behind…

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does SIZE matter?

I guess it depends on what “size” one is talking about! In Manifest Your Mate the first chapter deals with the physical aspects of your desired partner. In my group study performed while writing the book, I was told by more than half the women that “looks” didn’t matter to them. However, subsequent conversations and their experience with the book and manifesting soon proved that they did. The physical is not the most important aspect…

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receiving my book Proof!!

Join in my joy! So happy my friend Mary was there to capture this moment on film! Thank you Mary Shriver!  My first book arrived for me to approve the printing. Never saw it in actual book form until this moment….wow…overwhelming. My gratitude goes out to all authors. Thank you all for your heartfelt time, stories and energy you have exerted in getting your creations  in our hands…..I appreciate you all.

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Boundaries

Boundaries! We have all heard from girlfriends or stated ourselves: I won’t date married men I won’t be a therapist to my date I won’t date men who are separated I won’t sleep with a guy on the first date The list can go on and on. We usually set these boundaries based on past experiences of heartache. I think one major reason women fall into a relationship that doesn’t work is that we allow…

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Almost first date?

Has this ever happened to you? You meet someone. The two of you hit it off pretty good. The guy asks you if you want to meet for a drink, coffee, dinner etc. You agree. You exchange numbers. each of you go about your life. In the above scenario, what do you, the female expect to happen next? It appears that the man should be calling. No deadline was put on when he would call…

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Bad Tools

Practice makes perfect except when it comes to a BAD relationship. An unhealthy relationship cannot get better using the same tools that built it! Do you have the right tools to walk into a healthy relationship? Does the person you are entering into the relationship have complimentary tools or the same ones? While doing the work in Manifest Your Mate, questions like this might arise. In the case above if  both people have the same…

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Healthy Relationships

What does the term “healthy relationship” mean to you? To me it means that each person respects and loves themselves enough to know how to communicate in an effective way with the other. A healthy relationship should last a lifetime. It can stand the trials and tribulations of loss and disaster, of all kinds. It can stand the struggles of disease and illnesses. A healthy relationship carries both participants into the future, instead of to…

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the cover

I found the cover image online almost a year before I started cover design for the book and definitely before the manuscript could even be called one. I love this image, the textures the feeling that she is creating her mate from the Universal dust. I love the fact that they create stronger love as they combine as two, by the heart shaped space above. Immediately upon seeing the image – I knew I had…

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editing – yikes!

Who wants to sit and read through their own book a hundred times? No one. I found that it is a must to know every word, every space and every piece of punctuation before you publish. I think the brain gets used to seeing something it has seen before, so in the review process, it is hard to catch every mistake. I ended up reading my book aloud to myself and placing the punctuation verbally…

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